How to Get Over an Ex Boyfriend

Breaking up with an over powering and possessive boyfriend might be a great belief but then hard feelings never die easily. Deep in your heart you might have the conviction that breaking up was the best thing possible decision as it has set you free from bondage. However if you still hang around with him in your heart and find it hard to get over your ex boyfriend or pass on just read through and find out how you can drop your feelings for him and set yourself free.

Never try to call your ex and try to set things right or try to get an explanation about the breakup. Its over and so its time you deleted his contact information, email id and every possible communication details before deleting him fully from your mind. This is a very important step if you truly want to move on leaving your ex boyfriend behind for good. Many times you might be tempted to call him or give him a wrong call just to listen to his voice or to show him how much you need him. This is sheer foolishness when you feel the relationship has no meaning and a source of great bondage and pain.

Now that you have deleted all visible contact information the next step is to throw away all possible reminders from your house or closet. Gifts, photographs, letters, emails, greeting cards, etc which reminds you of him must get out of sight and don’t think it is easy. You have developed a deep emotional connection with the things he offered and now it will tear you apart when you try to throw them away. So it is best to call a friend to help you with this next greatest thing towards liberation from an undeserving ex.

Now that all contact information and reminders are all washed off it is time to deeply evaluate your boyfriend’s negative qualities which disturbed you. Make a list of all the negative behavior which did drive you crazy. It will be difficult to put in paper each and every quality in a day. So whenever you remember enter it in the journal and whenever you feel like contacting him or bonding with him just read through the journal and you will be amazed to see how much he had been manipulating you and over powering you by emotionally abusing you at every point. Keep the list handy in your purse or even stick it out in your bedroom. Every time you pass by it will remind you of the wrong guy in your life who made a good move in leaving you alone.

Life is full of possibilities don’t just stick to a guy who never thought of you any better than a mean weakling. Make the right decision to get over your ex boyfriend, stop idolizing him or giving the attention that he never deserved. Sit back, look forward and keep going and look out for a more understanding and efficient friend, who can make you happy and make the relationship work.

It's offically over.

Well, It's now officially over between me and Clint. It was hard to end the year and a half relationship. But i gathered up my courage and went for it. He didn't take it well. He got mad and asked if there was someone else. Like there was actually someone else?! I don't go around with random guys, although i could. haha. No but really, he was threatning suicide AGAIN! All week his Myspace status is "i cant live anymore." or " no reason to live." Really?! I'm not trying to shoot myself down or anything but nothing is worth ending your life. Not even a girl! Or a guy! They aren't worth ending your life. Life is too precious and golden to throw away. I learned that the hard way, unfortunatly. Whatever though. What's done is done. I hope he knows i am not coming back this time. It's for real. No more pretending i like him, or dealing with his shit. Although, i wish him the best of luck with who ever he meets next. He better get the hint. It's not like i don't want to be friends. I do. I guess we will see in a few months if friendship will actually be functional.
Thats all for now.
Write more soon.
:)
P.S. I'm not sure if i should be happy or sad...:/
-Steph

A break-up about to happen...again.

Ok so recently Clint and me havent been getting along. He's pretty much always around and i never get any privacy. EVER! He's always calling me non-stop and writing me, its really annoying. And whats worse is hes calling at like 2 or 3 in the morning and my mom gets pissed because he woke her up. He's making things worse off at home then they already are. I can't stand it when guys are always calling, always messaging and always there. I need my space. It's weird that our relationship is coming to an end though. Clint was never a bad boyfriend. But i can't handle all the suicide and and death threats he has. I mean why is it always violence?? Why can't i find a guy that is normal and knows how to treat a girl. Clint told me from the start, he wanted to spoil who ever his girlfriend was. I like be spoiled but there is a thing called too much. It's not enough for me. I need him to quit acting like his friends and be himself. Why does he always feel like he needs to act redneck?? Who actually WANTS to be redneck? Seriously, this game is getting old. Sad to say, but will admit it, my feelings are long gone for him. I don't think i can stay in this relationship any longer. It's like he doesn't want this to work. We have been dating for a year and a half. How could this have failed? I never thought i would be without him. I never thought i would love him. Im not even sure i did. Love is a strong word. It takes more than one person to mean it. I guess 3rd ones a charm right? Connor, Clint...who's next? Maybe the 3rd serious one will be the one ill actually love. Maybe if i dont talk to him for a while, he will get the hint? Maybe? Or should i just break it off now and get it over with? I'm not sure what to do. It's like i can never find the right guy. There is always something wrong with the ones i choose. They either cheat on me or act like complete fools. :/I don't think i ever mean't anything to him, if i did we wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be feeling like this. Ugh. I need advice. But there is no one to talk to. I guess ill end it with him tomorrow, or later on tonight. This will be bad i know it. More to come. End results.

"Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him."

-Steph